A lot of couples, especially those who have been in a relationship for a while, most probably feel a little dry already. It’s rare, but not impossible, for couples to stay bright for years on end. I say it’s not impossible since there are a lot of couples who grew old together and still have that same spark as when they first met. It’s beautiful to see when elderly couples still treat each other with so much love and feel so comfortable with each other. Feeling comfortable and safe in a relationship is probably one of the best feelings. This is not to say that perfect couples don’t fight or have issues. There is no such thing as the perfect couple. Every relationship has its ups and downs. Unless it takes a serious toll on your physical and mental health, that is something you should get out of before you’re in too deep.
Back to the topic at hand, if you don’t have any unsolvable issues in your relationship and you’re looking for ways to spice it up and bring that spark back, I’m here to help you out. Remember that with anything at all, both of you need to be comfortable with it and consent needs to be given. Thus, if you have no idea where to start to spice up your relationship, here are a few tips that can nudge you a little bit:
Spend Some Time Together Intimately
It’s as simple as this. If you’re a couple that has been together for several months or a couple of years, think of when was the last time that you actually cuddled up or simply made out. I’m not talking about sex, it’s simply about physical intimacy. Making out or cuddling is a couple of the most intimate things you can do with your partner. It awakens all the good feelings you have for each other, just by being close to each other.
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Discover Each Other More
Following physical intimacy, you could also try to discover more about each other. Unless you tell each other everything, there must be some things that you still don’t know about each other. Maybe tell each other every kink or fantasy you have, your pet peeves or simply explore by doing something new. For instance, a lot of people have not tried this but try taking a bath with your partner. This will unlock a whole other level of comfort with each other that might bring you closer.
Switch It Up In The Bedroom
Now here comes the fun part of spicing up your relationship. First things first, you and your partner have to communicate and tell each other what you’re comfortable with. Establish a boundary or limits and make sure consent is given from both sides. If both of you have been having a relatively normal sexual relationship, consider adding sex toys to the picture. Sex toys are not just for singles who masturbate but for those in a relationship looking to spice things up too. Sex toys can enhance sexual satisfaction, offer health benefits and it overall steps up your sex game.
Don’t be afraid to explore deeper into things or activities that you and your partner have never tried. You might never know if you like it or not and it might just bring you closer than ever.